A waiting moment

[Heldfast]

BPD ex fiancée ran off without warning, replaced by her ex of seven years ago who she moved to Seattle for, all the way across country. At very least emotionally cheated on. A very good friend is in Seattle, she knows he is very good friend to me, hates what she's done. She asked him to see her for drinks while he is there. He's going to talk to her about us, now 5 months out. I'm just waiting... .

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[Loosestrife]

Hi Heldfast

This sounds like an anxious time for you   What are for waiting for... .Do you think your BPD ex is single again and you want yo recycle or do you want yo know if they cheated on you?

[Heldfast]

She stayed for all of 30 seconds and ditched him, saying she was sick. She has her own car and replacement was waiting in it the whole time to drive her home. She wasn't sick. Either she cannot face herself or the guy just has that much power over her.

[Heldfast]

I am sad for what my loved one has become, pathetic, ridiculous, she has thrown away 100 friends or more, a life where she was loved, respected, and had standing int he community for a replacement who is damaged and referred to as "the troll" by her family, for a cubicle, for living free and independent with her own life to be solely under this guy's thumb, who wasn't even man enough to go inside and be seen or introduce himself to one of her old friends, who is a friend no longer, who couldn't trust her alone to meet another man, even one who was gay, to go from being a child of the mind to just a child. She has made herself into a joke, whose every Facebook post is "I'm so winning at life, I'm so strong and independent." But refuses to post a single picture of herself because she knows she looks hollow to all the old friends.