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« on: May 06, 2015, 06:51:56 PM »

  After 14 years of tormenting my wife, risking my baby's future and 3 years of misdiagnosis, I can stop running.  Finally something makes sense.  I know what needs to be done and how hard I can work.  I stepped back from the edge and when I turned around there were people, the right people, holding out they're hands.  That was just 3 weeks ago. 
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« Reply #1 on: May 07, 2015, 09:16:31 AM »

Hi CaptainFontaine, 

Welcome.

I am sorry that there were 3 years of misdiagnosis. What has changed and made you feel that you can stop running?

I am glad that there were people that were there for you willing to help. 

Looking forward to reading your response.



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« Reply #2 on: May 07, 2015, 06:35:49 PM »

Congratulations, CaptainFontaine!  Sorry it's taken 3 years, but it's so wonderful that now that you've found the answer you are ready to move forward!   Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)  That's a huge step and I hope those wonderful people who are there for you are proud you?

I too look forward to your response and wonder what changed?  Was it finally just hearing the right diagnosis, that it finally fit?
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