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Author Topic: Don't know how to deal with ex-wife's projections about... almost everything  (Read 337 times)
Strategist79
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« on: May 21, 2015, 10:32:17 PM »

Hello everyone!  I just found this site and I can't tell you how excited I am to find this resource. I was married to a BP for 5 years and we've been divorced for 9 and it just keeps getting worse. I still have the emotional abuse scars, but I'm finally getting help from counseling and have an amazing bride who can help confirm that I'm not crazy after all.
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« Reply #1 on: May 22, 2015, 01:20:43 AM »

Welcome I hope you find the support you are looking for here. 

As for your ex-wife. What is she projecting on to you? Do you think possibly she may be upset you are getting remarried, and projecting her ill feelings on to you?
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« Reply #2 on: May 22, 2015, 07:39:48 AM »

Hi Strategist79,

Welcome to the site, glad you found it and congratulations on your upcoming wedding  Smiling (click to insert in post)

What ages are your kids? What kind of custody arrangement do you have?

Coparenting is not easy with a BPD ex spouse. Does she know that you're getting married? How is your fiancee managing?

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