When stuff gets this weird I always suggest documenting everything. Print out the emails or screenshot and print out the texts. Put them in a folder. Get physical documentation from the dentist and doctor showing what the problem is and is not. Put that documentation in the folder. Label the folder "Oral Herpes". Roll your eyes. Go on with your life.
If down the road you have reason to need to show a professional third party what you are dealing with, that file will be a gem.
That's my plan, I spoke with the dr today and they didn't do a swab test only a visual test. Its very inaccurate to go only by visual so im going to get a more thorough swab test, im convinced its a canker sore based on the fact that she bit her lip right where the ulcer is.
The sad thing is not necessarily that D could have herpes, because that stuff happens. We pass things back and forth between family members, it wouldn't be the first or last time herpes passed between parent and child. Or from child to child.
Very true and if she does have herpes it doesn't mean that I gave it to her, she could have picked it up from another person. even the babysitter kisses my daughter.
The sad thing is that your ex would tell D that it's your fault. tongue
Absolutely, Im positive she has filled my daughter with all kinds of fear.
My ex was a hypochondriac about S13, always blowing things out of proportion. I found what worked was to recognize he was a scared parent -- I think he was genuinely afraid when S13 got sick and always assumed the worse
That's my ex as well, the smallest thing is blown up to be a life threatening thing.
Let her tell you if she's concerned. It could be she's just busy being 3 and doesn't want to get caught up in that stuff.
I really hope so