Hello Shottsy85, and welcome back... .I would encourage you to read "How a BPD Relationship Evolves" on this website. Forewarned is forearmed.
What has changed in these last six months?... .apart from the engagement, of course.
Well MOST of the time he has been being more supportive, talking to me, he has been sticking to his DBT and T, he also half ass joined SLAA but hasn't found a sponsor yet. I am angry at him again today, so its hard to be objective. He does try and calm himself down, or talk to me about things eventually. He also does tell me he loves me, and I am usually the one that gets upset and asks if he doesn't want to be with me, because his behaviors and actions are confusing, but he clearly states of course he does, which IS reassuring, but it is still difficult to manage with him a lot. Especially right now I am under tremendous amounts of stress and want his support, we have a lot of bills to pay, and he and I are running a business together, but I feel that I work harder than he does, and he isn't being very supportive.