I'm to the point where the idea of sex does not sound appealing to me. Not just sex with my wife, but sex in general. I think the verbal and physical abuse is a huge factor here, in addition to stress of a BPD relationship, depression, and the strong feeling of needing alone time. Anyone else ever feel this way?
It's been a while... .but yeah... .when I had a lot going on with me and the wife... .when I was overwhelmed... .I wasn't much interested.
Hard to remember how long that went on... couple months maybe. Things got better... .that feeling went away.
For me... .I think there was so much negativity and bad... .that I wasn't interested in anything fun or good. Depression maybe? Who knows...
You would think... .that a person "suffering" from a lot of negativity and bad stuff would want to do something fun... .
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