its ending

[brazbeast]

hi i only had one other post but i really need help right now, shes with her ex and deosnt want to see me right now and im losing faith in my actions please someone give me advice she is now ignoring my messages(but looking at them), this seemed to all start 2 days ago when i didn't let her go to a party alone and drink with this same ex, after that she said i wasted her time aand got increasingly unpleasent then wanted to see me then because i was with other friends before we were to meet because she went to him,she said i was leaving/ditching her which i wasnt, i fear this may be the final straw in our relationship

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[sweetheart]

Hello brazbeast,

I can hear how upset you are, things sound difficult at the moment. You are posting here on Staying so looking at ways to try and make sense of what is going on and getting you some support will be what I will be suggesting.

It might be for the moment it is important to give your gf some space so that she can sort through what is going on for her. Can you do that, even though I'm sure it's not what you probably want to do ?

It sounds like a lot has been going on over a short space of time which could have led to heightened emotions for both of you. I can hear a lot of confusion in your post. Having a bit of space and time even though difficult can help you make better sense of what has happened. How long have you been together, has this happened before at all?

You mention not letting your gf go to a party, can you talk about this a bit more?

Keep posting, let us know what is happening.

[brazbeast]

im sorry i havent responded she has seen this site before and me reading it and thought it was becasue she was so hard and terrible so i try to stay away as im with her at most times, we have only been together for around 2 months but were basically together for much longer and have agreed this is pretty serious and we both do love eachother. and i did give her time and we settled that but now its basically ending again even more intensly because she says i dont love her and i left her( she jumped out of my car and walked away and called the ex after we saw some friends at a stoplight and were about to follow them somewhere)

[brazbeast]

i usually am able to just decline her breeak up but that isnt working at all right now and its over text and im trying to onvince her to talk to me tomorrow but for the moment she seems dead set on not. we just had a wonderful weekend, went to a baseball game, walked the town with a friend and got a little drunk before this all happened, she said i ignored her on the way back but i didnt and she didnt look at me the whole end of the night