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« on: August 12, 2015, 10:03:46 PM »

Hi I found this site as I was looking for support and advice. My husband has BPD and has just been made redundant from his job and of course this brings up all kinds of feelings and emotions due to rejection. I need guidance with trying to explain to him that he can not put him self down in front of our children. I am worried that the things he says will affect our children and their view on the world. Has anybody else been in this situation? how have you navigated through the anger,depression,self doubt tirades and still kept the household running and have happy healthy children 
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Relationship status: "Divorced"/abandoned by SO in Feb 2013; Mother with BPD, PTSD, Depression and Anxiety: RIP in 2021.
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« Reply #1 on: August 13, 2015, 01:02:09 AM »

Hello mrsj,

I'm sorry that your H was let go. Its a stressful enough thing without having to deal with BPD.

What kind of things are you worried about that he will say in front of your children? How old are they, and is there a history of behaviors here which you have seen affecting them?

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« Reply #2 on: August 13, 2015, 02:36:22 PM »

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You're in the right place - we have all kind of resources to help you in this. Turk asked the same questions I was going to ask.

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