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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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CaptDaddy
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« on: September 28, 2015, 09:29:15 PM »

Hello, I have been in a 15 year relationship over 24 years and coparent with 3 smaller children. The coparenting was a struggle with false police and family services complaints.

It's hard to understand 2 years later after the time.

But I seemed to betray by getting better from bipolar chronic manic rare.

Now 20 years is gone and I have 18 to go hoping to parent as I'm punished over and over.

Thank you for letting me rant
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« Reply #1 on: September 28, 2015, 11:27:45 PM »

Hi CaptDaddy,

Welcome

I'm sorry to hear that you had a difficult time with family services and police complaints. I can see how that would feel distressing. Do you feel traumatized by your experiences?

Are you co-parenting with a difficult ex partner with borderline personality traits?

It helps to talk.
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« Reply #2 on: September 30, 2015, 09:25:44 AM »

Many here have walked in your shoes and "Been there, Done that".  The collective experience, wisdom and resources here are immense.  You can improve your skills here in Communicating with the other parent, you can learn how to have better Boundaries, you can read what Strategies worked for us.  We're sad that your circumstances brought you here but happy that you've come to the right place.

So... .welcome!  The more you read, post and share, the more benefit you'll gain from peer support.
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