Wife with BPD

[Munchesmom]

I have been married to a wonderful woman for 4 years. Since the day we met it has been a roller coaster ride of emotions, quick intense fights, night terrors and sleepless nights. I never understood BPD until she became pregnant and the symptoms became too difficult to manage. Since giving birth the symptoms have not returned to her pre pregnancy state and our marriage is suffering. She is finally seeking help, finally!

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[once removed]

hi munchesmom and

im glad you found us, though im sorry to hear youve been on such a roller coaster ride and that your marriage is suffering . the good news is that BPD is treatable, and we also have many tools here that can help you improve your marriage, so its great to hear that your wife is seeking help. what kind of help is she seeking?

[globalnomad]

Hi Munchesmom. Sorry to hear about your troubles. I am going through something very similar right now - my fiance gave birth last week and it has been very difficult. What are the kind of things you are finding tough? And what prompted her to seek help?