Her reply: . I don't need him for anything. Won't waste my time trying to call someone who acts like I don't exist.
No need to reply to this. You sent a clear message. Let her do with it... what she will.
I'm assuming that you didn't "pick up the bait" about her thinking that her dad doesn't think she exists.
FF
Oh no, not at all. I fully intend on letting my husband decide how he wants that handled. As for me, seeing who she is... .I'd much rather not have a relationship with her. I suppose that's where that whole self-fulfilling prophecy comes in.
Even worse news. Just got of the phone with MIL. Husband's favorite cousin died this morning. Mom was flying in on the 27th of this month and we had planned a BBQ at brother's house. Husband was going early to help cook and everything. Very excited for the family get together and to see mom.
Plans are changing. Mom is trying to come earlier for funeral. We had plans this weekend (my birthday is 20th) to go to the Renaissance Festival. My first one ever I was so excited and husband was taking me. I'm sure this will change everything. I'm not being selfish here... .I fully understand a death has occurred and obviously this is priority, but I'm thinking of how important it was to my husband for him to do this for me.
There's stormy waters ahead in my household. *Puts on Captain cap*