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this is wearing my patience out. whenever we do get some money she has a trait. first we go shopping. as a disabled person i cannot walk fast. i have told her shopping is nt her scene but she tries and fails. first she gets compulsive which means leaving all the unneeded junk at the till. secondly she gets claustrophobic and me remaining calm freaks her out. at the same time i know her attack is coming. so today i went through the motions. she had the old traits. i cannot leave her in the mall to do her own thing because she will buy everything we dont need. in the car she started a screaming match with only one participant and i told her in a calm soothing voice what she is experiencing and that she is having a panic attack. then she went ballastic. so i put my foot down and said you are panicking because our finances is in dire straits. her screaming and insults continue and i said i know your next move you want to go to the casino with money we don't have. so instead of started a fight just go. i will take ccare of the losses afterwards.



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