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kimber

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how to disengage from a "hater" BPD spouse

« on: June 10, 2016, 01:32:48 PM »

my BPD spouse is in the hater mode and everything is my fault. My breathing causes her rage sometimes... Dr. Phil shows trigger her hate for me.


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Relationship status: married 8 yrs, together 16yrs
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Re: how to disengage from a "hater" BPD spouse

« Reply #1 on: June 13, 2016, 07:10:57 AM »

Is this a repetitive cycle, or has something recently changed?


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