Running away

[Depression = 72% of members]

Im in relationship a year partner has BPD he comes online pretending to be someone else he runs away if we are physical he is beautiful man who i adore  is this behaviour usual how may i best support him i love him very much he cannot handle me spending anytime at all away from house often asking am i your only love im very loyal to him i love him with all my heart any advice greatly received

[Worriedlady]

Im in relationship a year partner has BPD he comes online pretending to be someone else he runs away if we are physical he is beautiful man who i adore  is this behaviour usual how may i best support him i love him very much he cannot handle me spending anytime at all away from house often asking am i your only love im very loyal to him i love him with all my heart any advice greatly received

[PLEASE - NO RUN MESSAGES]

PLEASE - NO RUN MESSAGES This is a high level discussion board for solving ongoing, day-to-day relationship conflicts. Members may appear frustrated but they are here for constructive solutions to problems. This is not a place for relationship "stay" or "leave" discussions. Please read the specific guidelines for this group.

[Meili]

First, welcome to the family. This is a great place to learn about BPD and there are many tools to help you cope with the effects. Reading the stories of others and going through the lessons and workshops may help you a lot.

Second, why do you think that he suffers from BPD? Has he been diagnosed?