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« Reply #20 on: March 18, 2013, 01:19:22 PM »
Ok thanks. Can I ask would someone leave you because of this, like you are getting too close or they feel smothered?
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« Reply #21 on: March 18, 2013, 02:53:42 PM »
Quote from: jj2121 on March 18, 2013, 01:19:22 PM
Ok thanks. Can I ask would someone leave you because of this, like you are getting too close or they feel smothered?

I think that is understandable. We all need a little space. It is healthy for relationships. The problem with a BPD relationship is their feelings seem to go to extremes and can change at a moments notice. Often their feelings aren't based in reality. In physical events that actually happened and you don't understand why they feel the way they do.
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« Reply #22 on: March 18, 2013, 02:59:25 PM »
Just strange, 1 week she wanted a serious relationship and made me commit to her,the next week she dumped me out of the blue,when she was having family issues.
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