Hi Hangin-On and welcome to BPDFamily. I am so sorry about the way things are going.
I love my husband warts and all... Is there hope?
I believe there is hope. If you and
your husband are both committed to recovery, I believe he can recover. There are several examples of couples at BPDFamily who have done just that. Unfortunately, there are also a lot of couples where the Non-BPD is truly committed but the person with BPD is committed only in words. In those cases, things don't seem to improve much for the person with BPD.
Feel free to post as much as you like and we will try to help out however we can.