Two people in a relationship

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What would happen if two people with a borderline personality disorder (both with antisocial and narcissict tendencies) tried to get into a relationship? Has anyone experienced this?

I think my boyfriend of the past 5 years is borderline. It's always spinning out of control. It's always a control issue. It's always spinning...

I just came across this article:  http://www.obgyn.net/displayarticle.asp?page=/yw/articles/RomeosBleeding_TOC

It sounds just like the both of us.

What do you all think?

[carmela]

What would happen if two people with a borderline personality disorder (both with antisocial and narcissict tendencies) tried to get into a relationship? Has anyone experienced this?

I think my boyfriend of the past 5 years is borderline. It's always spinning out of control. It's always a control issue. It's always spinning...

I just came across this article:  http://www.obgyn.net/displayarticle.asp?page=/yw/articles/RomeosBleeding_TOC

It sounds just like the both of us.

What do you all think?

[snaillady2]

carmela,

Do a search on member amybeth79. She is a recovering BPD who was in a relationship with a BPD. I'm sure her history of posts will give you an idea of ONE dual-BPD relationship. Of course all relationships are different, just as many BPDs manifest in different ways. But if you want a perspective, check out her posts.  I couldn't find any in a quick perusal to drop her a PM to check out this topic, but you can search for the name yourself and catch up.

Good luck,

Snails