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Author Topic: A thank you to all the people whose connection to BPD is loving a non  (Read 260 times)
TexasSky
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« on: September 07, 2006, 05:40:14 PM »

I had a lot of healing to do after my divorce, and frankly, I still have a lot to do.

The biggest help to me has been a man that I am seeing.  His emotional support, his patience with me when my ex gets to me, via the kids, his firmness in telling me, "don't let yourself be manipulated."  His understanding of my over-protectiveness about my children.

My daughter is the same way.  She is seeing an amazing man now, who gives her patience, support and love, and tells her that its okay to not dance on her father's puppet strings. His understanding of the fleas she picked up.

I know it is not easy to deal with the emotional baggage we nons bring with us, but you guys are not JUST loving non's.  You are helping nons heal in ways no one else on earth could.

So, on behalf of all of us that are peeking out the gates of Oz.

Thank you.
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« Reply #1 on: September 07, 2006, 10:33:45 PM »

Awww, that's so sweet. I seriously believe though, that we both help each other. I'm very far from put together and perfect, lol, and he knows it. And I'm sooooo grateful that he took the chance to love again...
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