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Author Topic: The Irony of how the BPDs will stop at nothing  (Read 295 times)
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« on: December 20, 2007, 06:25:06 PM »

So, I get a call from my ex-h today who is out of state with work (he travels extensively).  S called his fiance because he couldn't reach either one of us.  S was pulled out of class today by a CPS investigator on an allegation of child abuse on him and my D.  Apparently my S had a black eye two weeks ago (news to me) and that their father beats them everytime he comes back into town (again news to me).  Talked to D later and she too was pulled out of class for a visit with CPS.

Now needless to say, both my children were upset with this, scared, and had originally thought this was dealing with our current situation - when they found out it wasn't (this investigator had no clue what they were talking about) they were wrecks.

HOW FAR WILL THESE PSYCHOTIC INDIVIDUALS GO - AS FAR AS THEY WANT TO.

I can tell you, I will not rest until this is investigated as a false (criminal charges will apply) accusation.  Enough is enough.  To think that we haven't even officially closed this case yet and this happens?  And there isn't a person on this planet that can tell me it wasn't her (or a friend she put up to it).

Either Momster thinks this is just a way to get back at us and create havoc or a way to further her efforts to "ensure" we are horrible people, I don't know. But I do know that this will not be the end of her hearing from me.
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« Reply #1 on: December 20, 2007, 06:27:05 PM »

 Hi!

I, Mr. M, am a member of the false CPS claims club.  Welcome happybunny.
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« Reply #2 on: December 20, 2007, 06:47:34 PM »

Thanks Mr. M!  It's what I always wanted!  :smiley

My poor kids - all they did was be in a healthy environment and the BPD feels the need to infiltrate that as well - not to mention getting their poor half brother and Step Mom involved as well.

I guess we are ALL one big family.
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« Reply #3 on: December 20, 2007, 07:35:26 PM »

We're in the same boat as you are, HB.  Dear ol' borderline mom orchestrated a false claim against husband of sexually abusing  the (then) 4-year-old daughter.  For this, we will never forgive her.  Never.

My husband was sexually abused when he was 12.  He is on the board of the Illusion Theatre, devoted to issues of child abuse.  My husband has still not recovered from this ultimate betrayal by her.

I offer you my prayers and thoughts. This isn't an easy path.

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« Reply #4 on: December 20, 2007, 09:03:31 PM »

my name is The End...I am a member of the CPS false claims club, 8 formal invesigations, nearly 20 that never rose to investigation status...all unfounded. 

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« Reply #5 on: December 20, 2007, 09:09:16 PM »

WELCOME, THE END!

 Hi!
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