Fall of 2007: Part V - The All Clear? (A Must Read)

[Think About It...]

Fall of 2007 - Part IV (With Backlinks)

So, mmm is reading the transcripts behind me as I type this and we just finished reading the latest email from Psychex.  Seems she got home, dug up my petition, read it, and realized - she... is... sunk.

Well Mr. M, I got home, I reviewed the petition/proposal that you filed in September.  It appears, as usual that I overlooked the fine details...I'm sure you've looked at the transcript from the Nov 2nd hearing by now and realize that she asked me if I agreed with everything else but the two items I brought up and I said "yes"  Of course when I originally reviewed everything, I was focused the driving issue and overlooked Christmas that you put in there that you would have the kids the entire week of Christmas.  You always "beat me" on the technicalities but that won't happen in the future, I assure you.  I'm sure your "Legal Eagle" MMM, has been telling you that you have me beat...but that's because she's not truly "A Mother"...if she was she would never think this was a "great" idea.  I'm going to withdraw my petition because I'm the "better" person...and EVERYONE knows that.  My family knows, your family knows, our old friends know, my friends know, my company knows, the school knows...but most importantly YOU know that I'm a WAY nicer person than your girlfriend and you're upset that I divorce YOU.   I can't compete with someone who is as manipulative and intelligent as you (and your girlfriend) who is apparently the gonads behind this whole thing because I happen to know that you are not this MEAN...and that's exactly what this is...manipulation...deceit...payback...whatever it is...it's wrong and it sucks for me that I'm not as SMART as you and your girlfriend.  Worst of ALL..it sucks for S9 and S6...they love being here..they love the fun we have together, just like you used to LOVE spending time with me...because when I'm with them I AM the person you fell in love with...because they LOVE me back.   Let me give you some advice though...this Judge...is starting to see your true colors...read between the lines.  Read what she is saying to you on November 2nd and in that contempt hearing...she's not just sick of me...she's kinda sick of you too.  Do what you feel you must with Christmas...I will live through this just like ALL of the other atrocities that you've inflicted on me over the past 4 years...will it EVER stop?

~Psychex

Holy fricken wowzer! 

[Mr. M]

Fall of 2007 - Part IV (With Backlinks)

So, mmm is reading the transcripts behind me as I type this and we just finished reading the latest email from Psychex.  Seems she got home, dug up my petition, read it, and realized - she... is... sunk.

Well Mr. M, I got home, I reviewed the petition/proposal that you filed in September.  It appears, as usual that I overlooked the fine details...I'm sure you've looked at the transcript from the Nov 2nd hearing by now and realize that she asked me if I agreed with everything else but the two items I brought up and I said "yes"  Of course when I originally reviewed everything, I was focused the driving issue and overlooked Christmas that you put in there that you would have the kids the entire week of Christmas.  You always "beat me" on the technicalities but that won't happen in the future, I assure you.  I'm sure your "Legal Eagle" MMM, has been telling you that you have me beat...but that's because she's not truly "A Mother"...if she was she would never think this was a "great" idea.  I'm going to withdraw my petition because I'm the "better" person...and EVERYONE knows that.  My family knows, your family knows, our old friends know, my friends know, my company knows, the school knows...but most importantly YOU know that I'm a WAY nicer person than your girlfriend and you're upset that I divorce YOU.   I can't compete with someone who is as manipulative and intelligent as you (and your girlfriend) who is apparently the gonads behind this whole thing because I happen to know that you are not this MEAN...and that's exactly what this is...manipulation...deceit...payback...whatever it is...it's wrong and it sucks for me that I'm not as SMART as you and your girlfriend.  Worst of ALL..it sucks for S9 and S6...they love being here..they love the fun we have together, just like you used to LOVE spending time with me...because when I'm with them I AM the person you fell in love with...because they LOVE me back.   Let me give you some advice though...this Judge...is starting to see your true colors...read between the lines.  Read what she is saying to you on November 2nd and in that contempt hearing...she's not just sick of me...she's kinda sick of you too.  Do what you feel you must with Christmas...I will live through this just like ALL of the other atrocities that you've inflicted on me over the past 4 years...will it EVER stop?

~Psychex

Holy fricken wowzer! 

[happybunny]

Mr. M -

I have just realized why H and I love your posts so much - we have recognized both of you were married to the same woman!

Your new false allegation friend-

Happybunny

[emminencefront]

.but most importantly YOU know that I'm a WAY nicer person than your girlfriend and you're upset that I divorce YOU.

Un-f'ing-believable. 

I laughed about "gonads."  ( My DH's ex throws that word around a lot).  Maybe you could mail psych-ex a pair of Neuticles for Xmas...(Neuticles are commercially-made prosthetic testicles that can be implanted in "fixed" male dogs, to make them appear anatomically "whole".  You can actually order  Neuticle "gifts" from their website:  key chains, earrings, necklaces...3 sizes, small, medium, large...)

No disrespect, mmm, but you da nad, girl!   

You good people have a great holiday!

EF

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[nowwhat]

I tell you mr. m.  we could exchange the x's emails and never notice a difference.  It amazes me how they claim everybody supports them and everybody hates you.

I sincerely hope you and your kids have a wonderful holiday.  You all deserve it.

[csandra]

I am SO sorry for you and SO sorry for mmm.  She is sick, sick, sick.  I hate to think of her leaking her venom about mmm to the kids.  She is obviously discussing this with every "Tom , Dick and Harry", as she practically refers to them by name.

 OK, not fully knowing your story, I definitely smell a re-engagement as in she is being "so fair, and so good and giving in to you, etc", that she likely expects that you will give in and let her have a brief holiday meet and greet(which she would complain about bitterly to the above mentioned people who know and love and admire her). 

She is going to absolutely FREAK OUT when she finds that they are out of town/inaccessible for the holidays.  Soon, she'll be addressing you as Mr. Grinch...

 Blessing to you and your family.  Hope all goes as planned.      

[Mr. M]

Re-engagement my ass.  She's delusional.  There have been many of them - most of them viperous - this one is off-the-chain bizarre.  The self-importance, self-aggrandizing behavior.  Everyone loves her - everyone hates me.

MMM and I are laughing right now reading the contempt transcript, because the judge buries her.  I would transcribe it in it's entirety, but it's 85-pages.  Maybe some highlights another time, but it is so totally the opposite of her reality it's funny, sad, and scary all at once.

The judge is fed up with seeing US.

The judge is fed up with her bullsht.  I've never filed anything that wasn't justified, be it a custody mod, a support mod, or the single contempt petition I filed.

I've never been found guilty of anything and there have been no fewer than 6 contempt petitions filed against me in the last 2 or so years.  All dismissed.

She is withdrawing this petition because she knows that if she sets foot in that court in front of Judge Contempt AGAIN - with this complete and utter bullsht - the consequences could be quite severe.

When things turn in my favor - it's because I'm "manipulative and evil and mmm is my gonad-set and running the whole show."  Nothing could be further from the truth.  Reality is - Psychex gives me pretty much everything I need on a silver platter to use against her while avoiding, at all costs, ANYTHING that could put me at odds with the court.  Oh, make no mistake, mmm is one smart cookie and has assisted every step of the way - but mmm doesn't give me the evidence.  MMM doesn't file all of the petitions which, during testimony, I turn around on her.

She's her own worst enemy and for that - I am thankful.

[mmm]

Oh holy crap, I died when I read this. She is insane. Mr. M has finally seen the light and realizes that she really does want him back. How many times can she possibly mention the love he should feel for her? LMFAO. Yes, for the woman who kept his children from him, who reported us for child abuse, who wishes him dead in front of his children. Wow, that is some kinda love  :

Now, I'm going to go caress my balls 

[Mr. M]

The unmistakable characteristic - failure to accept responsibility for her own actions - never fails to materialize.

The amazing thing, how she claims to have missed the "details" - here is an outline of how my petition was reviewed:

- I file the petition and she receives and official copy and reviews it.  Contacts me to discuss it because she agrees with almost all of it.

- An email exchange of no fewer than a dozen emails hash out "the details."  ITEM BY ITEM.  When we get to the bottom of "the details" - she absolutely agrees (in writing) to all of the provisions as specified except for 2 issues.

- I reconfirm what she agrees with and what she doesn't agree with - IN WRITING.

- We agree that we will go to court, open with Judge Contempt that we have an agreement save for those two items.  She agrees again IN WRITING.

- At court, we meet, re-agree, head in and do exactly as we said we would.  I give the judge the written email agreement between us, verbally detail same, and we conduct a short hearing on the two outstanding items on which she rules.

- The transcript is clear - THREE TIMES she is asked by the judge if she has read, understood, and agrees to all other provisions of the petition as written and her ruling on the two outstanding items.  THREE TIMES she responds affirmatively.

All this is irrespective of the clear contempt order from March regarding Christmas week 2007.

Reality is - she can't accept that she was COMPLETELY on board with this.  She can't accept that she COMPLETELY agreed with it many, many times.  She didn't miss the details.  For the BPD, reality is - I must have written that in invisible ink which magically appeared on the petition after the hearing.  I must have manipulated something.  I must have done something underhanded.

Reality is dangerous to the BPD.  Reality would mean she would have to lay there, in the dark, alone, and say to herself - "what the f**k is wrong with me?"

[Jewls]

Now, I'm going to go caress my balls 

Now it's time for me to LMFAO!

Reality is dangerous to the BPD.  Reality would mean she would have to lay there, in the dark, alone, and say to herself - "what the f**k is wrong with me?"

Damn, that's the truth.  I read that email as though it was something from Stink Weed.  It's amazing the similarities between many of the BPD exes on this board.  It's like there's an instruction manual on how to compose an email to the non.

Looking forward to your transcript highlights.  A nice, sweet, small victory.  We live for those here, Mr. M and mmm!

[Mr. M]

File the follow-up response under "I know you share everything with mmm, maybe I can make her feel insecure by sending you THIS..."

Mr. M,

against my better judgement...I'm also going to say that I think that MMM calls the shots..I have a really really really hard time believing that you are THIS mean.  We spent some really good good times...especially during the holidays.  You and I had some good times at this time of year and I won't ever forget that...remember the time I made you and MCB sing the SOUND of MUSIC? that was right before I found out we were pregnant with S9.  And we made love many times by the light of the Christmas tree...particularly one time I remember when you asked me to marry you...by tie fire up the mountains...Mr. M...remember the good not the bad...our boys want to see their mommy during Christmas...

~Psychex

Notice the continued use of "babytalk" - Our boys want to see their "mommy" during Christmas.   :

I'm so glad I'm going to be 250-miles away.

This was followed in mere minutes by...

Mr. M,

in summary...I know who calls the shots..and it's NOT YOU. sad...

~Psychex

Split much anyone?

Followed in mere minutes by...

Mr. M,

I got it...worry more about squaring youself with not letting the mother of your children see them because it bothers your girlfriend.

~Psychex

I don't even know that the hell that means...

Times of the emails:  7:55, 8:39, 9:11, 9:23.

Someone must be alone tonight.

[mmm]

People, I CANNOT stop laughing. Oh my dear Lord. Seriously, I can't stop. Help me!

[Mr. M]

Times of the emails:  7:55, 8:39, 9:11, 9:23.

Someone must be alone tonight.

9:41

Mr. M,

also, by the by the boys tell me that MMM's not so nice when "daddy's" not around...what's that all about? a little resentment
that's what I'm thinking? how about...how insecure can you get after four fricken years...?  you need tp start thinking of our
boys particularly S9 in light of the trouble he's been having since youu came to town?0  how long do you think your NON communication thing is going to fly with the teachers...this every other week has sucked...because your girlfriend doesn't want it to work? Get a set of your own and be a father...

Regards,
Psychex

P.S.  I know you wont respond because MMM won't allow it...because she's a warped individual...I can't help who you fall in love with.


That last part... ain't that the f**king truth!     Have another drink you Pig.

[the end]

MrM,mmm...oh thank you, thank you, thank you...

You made my evening,

Holy fricken wowzer! 

, ditto in triplicate.

[Mr. M]

Oy-Vey - thanks for the heads-up.

Happy Girl - many thanks for the assist.

Don't drink and post, kids.  You forget your edits.  Two glasses of wine, what a wuss.  :

[sonnyboy]

I almost (I said "Almost") feel sorry for her.  She is so lonely and sad.

You have "won."  But look at the toll this terrorist has taken on you.  There is no winning, is there?

On to the next battle, Mr. M.  It's always right around the corner.

SB

[Oy-vey!]

You're welcome!  

Can you send a Thank You to your PsychEx for all the laughs she has provided tonight?  

[srndpt0507]

OMG Mr. M/MMM what the h3ll do you even say to something like this? It is sheer madness! I just read this whole mess to DH and as usual he about fell out over the exactness of her psychotic verbal tirade.
Unreal!  All you can do is  or  .  I prefer laughter!

[Mr. M]

OMG Mr. M/MMM what the h3ll do you even say to something like this? It is sheer madness! I just read this whole mess to DH and as usual he about fell out over the exactness of her psychotic verbal tirade.
Unreal!  All you can do is  or  .  I prefer laughter!

May God forgive us for all of "the things" we've come up with that we could say, but know better than to dare say.  Even some of you would probably be disappointed.   

[srndpt0507]

Even some of you would probably be disappointed.   

Mr. M, I can tell you with absolute certainty I wouldn't be disappointed- h3ll I'd raise a glass and toast both you & mmm with laughter, high-5's and "dam# that was a good one!"  DH and I have certainly come up with some nasty doozies (we would have LOVED to said/sent) in the past.  Nothing anyone could say about these freakish beasts would ever surpise me.

[Mr. M]

Nothing anyone could say about these freakish beasts would ever surpise me.

I... could surprise you.