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« on: August 31, 2015, 07:17:21 PM »

Before we got to know each other I found out she, (BPDex) already had been in a full blown rs with "me", yes you read right. I read about BPD persons ability to engage in fantasy rs and it all came to a clearity regarding her behaviour towards me. Anyone that share this experience? We work at the same place and meet once a week.
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« Reply #1 on: August 31, 2015, 07:51:35 PM »

Before we got to know each other I found out she, (BPDex) already had been in a full blown rs with "me", yes you read right. I read about BPD persons ability to engage in fantasy rs and it all came to a clearity regarding her behaviour towards me. Anyone that share this experience? We work at the same place and meet once a week.

My ex told me herself that she got completely carried away in a fantasy when she met someone. It disturbed her - she knew it was dissociative in nature.
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