On behalf of the 1,395 newbies in the Fall/Winter class, I want to thank our Welcoming Ambassadors Christy2, EbonyDIL, Foiles, Gertrude, LivingWell, Ozzy, Schwing, StillBarbM, SuddenlySense for a job well done!
The Ambassadors did an outstanding job setting the tone and helping newbies find their way. Their efforts have made a huge difference to many.
The number of new members that post is up 180% from a year and a half ago - more people are finding the resources here to be useful in their struggles with a loved one affected by BPD.
Few understand the amount of time invested by the Ambassadors answering new threads, contacting people by PM, and working with the current members to find a home for the new members... but anyone who has encountered them knows how compassionate and giving a group they are.
Thankyou Christy2, EbonyDIL, Foiles, Gertrude, LivingWell, Ozzy, Schwing, StillBarbM, and SuddenlySense. And a special thank you to Gertrude, LivingWell, and SuddenlySense, who are multi-term Ambassadors...
From all of us

Here is your fall/winter class:
10 or more posts: robbanks123, kate30, whataride, wanda21022, darlenej, DragoN, Ami, OneTrickPony, greensleeve, velvetfish, El, innerspirit, GERWIN, drought_, sonsolilla, hopethereishope, dados76, nick212, libertine, TandooriChicken, fallingdomino, reeleesit, pk, kly, jayvee, stoic, shimmer, thuwk, SoCalGirl, done, sval, Alethaea, Trulovelost, Pincushion, hughman, unplugged, davidwebb, texas.moxie, tripoley, Cassy, Terri, Mobocracy, mc_terminator, MaryMc, cathy, kinetix, Honey, sonya, Unicorn, Madison67, missx, bmeadow, Hamlet, mmt, SafeNow, inshock, evedavis, manon46, loveblind and bound, Beast98, Quanman, theoutsider, Needawayout, PowerUp, ajfla12, andreap, his1girl, notmyproblem, Sunshame, butterfly_iguana, icaretoknow, blanchie01, fmg3, icantthinkofaclevername, questio24, ready to get out, msok, StrongThanILook, tammy, ymistlhr, Dani0613, mychaelah, Serija, janez, bolovan, Jay34, SteveL, CopingToday, daelyn263, twiggle, jc2, freebuthurting, longrain, ribera, Howzah, amart865, micat, mariK, shleynic, Clevernamessister, blank622, pianotnr, FireFighter, southbreeze, Snowy64, Interestedparty, hp2cuda, ExSystema, Blu, Arctic-gal, SaveTheKid, stressstressstress, Eklutna, NotDeadYet, so_bogus, homerakguy, smdunham, Shakedown1979, LivingLovingMyBP, credmond, VictimOfCircumstance, ninna343, Druyan33, hunter, jag02006, Boy, bmaxwell, WornOutMom, rponce, BethB, random, ah-ah, Ed709, harbowskis, nika, Gilgamesh, andrej, DigitalGhost, Loopyslove, Ferguson, lucky2, picturelady, teresas, dhow, KRISTA, master_norris, LondonDragon, uphill, walker, pipe, jul496, survivorof2, stpmom, consuelaba, olive, yamada, gumball1, Happiness, Betsy, batosai56790, nosleepagain, SeekingSerenity, Mikefive, tjim08, Isabella49, deloes, britlass, hhmark, phin, Sideburnt, 1stof4, RobW, The Giver, nanabanana973, odette, skythrutrees, tdpjr1234, BPWife, Isabella, Sarah777, Way2krdn8d, n_maschine, marc2000, capri19, mhs0181, comingbfoz, lucette, okay, maril, beachglass, flanola, jdumped, NMR, Bethany2286, makrothumia, hopefulinnyc, Driver8, stressed_danielle, LightBearer, showalittlerespect, Autumn, Free 2 B Me, skaredsh*tless, pinecone, littlebobbyblu, DnceHall, Valuation, ImASurvivor, jchristopherr28, julzz2003, michimusic, woundedhealer35, sjd, Slate, Libbydm, Easy, ladyevernight, namaste60, JustDucky, THUVIOLA, Moody, twenaven, darhma2, survivor2x, cali, hanami, Francesca, Manofpeace, coathanger, trackgales, bdbmommy, Sweetpea08, formergoodmother, cjbone287, BPDsonnyc, izzy, Ross, mccaverty, 10yrs2long, dealingwithit, SistaK, Hope123, ams, pallavirajsinghani, gloryb, New2This, Shane Preston
1-9 posts: mustang, limo77, hidingout, serenitynow, e632, Champ, Looking_for_help, citygirl, bfr1456, myohmy, merna, WhereFromHere, paula, banana13, scottp, RavenK, emshocked, Bart, adguziewicz, loydchristmas, FUZE, ihopenottofear, noteworthy, SKatz85, never_forget_forgive, mrsbgm, boomom, sandygh, JaneR, insula, hippiefalsed, deb123, katz28, ohio_nonBPD, thegoodgirl, WornOut2, namchampa, EvilBetty, 123456789, Angeldown, yiannis, Emunah, jezebel, jhtcpa, Brookamy, steel violet, svipch, glf, Snapdragon, FiguringThingsOut, Misled, deeizzy, SmallCatty, charles46, Normally normal, hope71, Jeffrey, giselle, trailside, Buffy, pitirijasperez, vmdunn, aboutDad, wife2b, taximomuv3, ohioflute, headscratcher, jumper, nBPD_cfl, sassygrrl, whitnit, awaywithwords08, neszagirl89, coachmom, peggy, counttotenslowly, toknowself, Texas, precta, ms-clean, Ashleigh, redlantern, chasesun, yelpersgal, alysonblack, bolling, jessica, TacomaDad, joshXd, Paindoc, Stakedriver, rtc25, timeforboundaries, 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