Not making a decision is a decision in and of itself. And the longer you wait, often, the worse it becomes.

Why should I chose?

A fire breaks out in your home. You stand before the flames.

“Should I get the fire extinguisher and fight it? Should I grab my photo album and run?”

You stand there - you can't decide. Not making a decision is a decision in and of itself.

OK. It's a very significant decision Do I try to work with my SO and try to rebuild the relationship? Do I move on and make a new life for myself?

The longer you wait - often - the worse it gets. Why? Because most likely your relationship is eroding - and who knows what that may bring. And most likely your psyche is eroding - you feel broken, hurt, trapped.

This guide is designed to help you sort it out. This may take time - and you don't want to rushed - and don't want to prolong it. It's wise to set a time table for yourself.

This isn't easy. Many of us are suffering from some level of depression that arises from long term relationship stress. This is not the blues (that's more of an anxiety), but the emotional weight that affects our ability to see things and think clearly. A person with depression tend to see things worse than they really are.

Our goal is to provide you with the tools and knowledge to begin to make positive changes in your life.

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