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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: clydegriffith on February 05, 2015, 10:54:45 AM



Title: It's starting again...
Post by: clydegriffith on February 05, 2015, 10:54:45 AM
Soo since i found out that the BPDx is lying about her latest child's paternity and let her know that i knew, she blocked my phone numbers and on social media. It could be nothing but today i'm feeling like i did when this all started, very tense and anxious and afraid that she's up to something that will end up with me getting arrested again.


Title: Re: It's Starting Again...
Post by: zeus123 on February 05, 2015, 01:10:13 PM
NO CONTACT is the only way


Title: Re: It's starting again...
Post by: Mutt on February 05, 2015, 06:12:48 PM
Hi clydegriffith,

I'm sorry to hear that.

Getting arrested is not fun. I can relate having been  falsely accused and charged by my uBPDex.

I can understand feeling scared and anxious that she may be up to something and perhaps up to nothing?

Blocking your number and blocking you social media is an indicator that you're split black. You may not hear from her for awhile. You can find peace and quiet. I suggest focusing on the present and not on speculations on what may or may not happen. Documenting is a good idea and responding back kindly if you must to give you added protection. Keep a low profile with her. I hope that helps.