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Title: I'm not sure what to do Post by: shatterd on April 22, 2015, 06:59:30 PM i have to make up my mind what i want here i need to see my kids so ya im kinda ina mess with this idk what im guna do if she wants to talk walk away or stay kills me
Title: Re: I'm not sure what to do Post by: Mutt on April 22, 2015, 08:53:16 PM Hi shatterd
*welcome* I'm sorry to hear that. When was the last time that you saw your kids? What do you mean if she wants to talk or walk away? Title: Re: I'm not sure what to do Post by: shatterd on April 22, 2015, 09:06:15 PM last i saw them was 8 days ago but this pattern of her frekin out n taken off has ben there for sevral years now idk why i stuck around and idk why i stay away now protection order sux but its best for now things were reely bad this time idk what she realy wants i dont think she does either and this pattern its hard to beleive its over for this time confused hurt lost all that
Title: Re: I'm not sure what to do Post by: Mutt on April 22, 2015, 09:19:13 PM Hi shatterd,
The break-up with a pwBPD is painful, confusing and chaotic. I'm sorry you're going through this. How many kids? How old? She has a protective order on you? Title: Re: I'm not sure what to do Post by: shatterd on April 22, 2015, 09:41:15 PM lota dum drama for sure staying clear of that tho 6 2 and 8mnths ya the order is against me its a civil one she made up a story to cops and they laffd st her lol
Title: Re: I'm not sure what to do Post by: Mutt on April 22, 2015, 09:55:16 PM Your kids are young. I'm sorry.
Do you have an L to sort this out? Do you have a court order? Title: Re: I'm not sure what to do Post by: shatterd on April 22, 2015, 09:59:56 PM monday we have court to see if there extending this order or droping it but the question is i struggle with is this the last time shood i just stay away even wen she comes around again?
Title: Re: I'm not sure what to do Post by: Mutt on April 22, 2015, 10:06:00 PM What's the stipulation of the protective order?
Title: Re: I'm not sure what to do Post by: shatterd on April 22, 2015, 10:09:47 PM no contact with her or kids court monday to decide
Title: Re: I'm not sure what to do Post by: Mutt on April 22, 2015, 10:12:04 PM Listen to your L's advice.
It would be wise to follow the order. Cross that bridge on Monday. Good luck in court Chin up. ----Mutt Title: Re: I'm not sure what to do Post by: shatterd on April 22, 2015, 10:17:06 PM thanx ben waitn on monday draggin lol
Title: Re: I'm not sure what to do Post by: Mutt on April 22, 2015, 10:33:19 PM I can relate.
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