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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Balance on February 15, 2017, 08:33:44 AM



Title: At my wits end
Post by: Balance on February 15, 2017, 08:33:44 AM
I need help with my relationship with my wife. I have read Stop Walking on Eggshells, and I'm looking forward to learning how to be healthy.


Title: Re: At my wits end
Post by: livednlearned on February 15, 2017, 08:55:32 AM
Hi Balance,

How are things with your wife at the current moment? How do her BPD symptoms present?

Glad you found the site, and sorry for what brings you here.

You're not alone, there are many others here walking the same path.

LnL


Title: Re: At my wits end
Post by: ArleighBurke on February 16, 2017, 12:08:03 AM
Your biggest first steps will be:
- learning conversational validation. https://bpdfamily.com/content/communication-skills-dont-be-invalidating
- looking after yourself (https://bpdfamily.com/content/setting-boundaries)