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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: willy45 on April 11, 2014, 12:08:16 PM



Title: Tips on Grieving
Post by: willy45 on April 11, 2014, 12:08:16 PM
Hi All,

Any tips on grieving from your end? I know that I need to work towards integrating the reality of my experiences with my ex and try to hold onto her in my mind as a complete person, not just the sweet, sexy, funny, fun person that occasionally came around. It just seems so hard to grieve for me because in the back of mind, there is this voice that tells me: "What are you wasting your time on this for? She was a lunatic and would have destroyed you. What are you sad about?"