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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: VeryConfusedNon on January 15, 2013, 11:34:13 PM



Title: Subtle yet effective
Post by: VeryConfusedNon on January 15, 2013, 11:34:13 PM
So I'm assuming, that a certain instant messaging program stores a person's blocked contacts on a central server. Well most do this, if not all, I'm almost sure this one does, if so, I see her, online right now... .  I know this pattern, I'm sure I've read it a zillion times on these forums... .  


Title: Re: Subtle yet effective
Post by: turtle on January 16, 2013, 08:02:34 PM
I'm a little confused by your post.

Are you saying that you are able to watch what she's doing on line?

turtle



Title: Re: Subtle yet effective
Post by: VeryConfusedNon on January 16, 2013, 08:41:59 PM
No, I'm saying that I'm assuming if you block someone, that information is stored centrally in a server, so no matter where you sign on from, be it cell phone, home computer, public computer, the fact that you blocked someone stays constant. I'm assuming this is, for most instant messaging services, she went online last night, that means I was unblocked.


Title: Re: Subtle yet effective
Post by: turtle on January 17, 2013, 08:29:33 AM
oh, I have no idea about any of that!  Sorry, not computer savvy here!



Title: Re: Subtle yet effective
Post by: Rose Tiger on January 17, 2013, 08:33:47 AM
How are you doing VCN?  Are you hoping for a recycle?


Title: Re: Subtle yet effective
Post by: VeryConfusedNon on January 17, 2013, 10:06:35 PM
yes and no to the recycle, leaning to no. But I'm not totally sure.



Title: Re: Subtle yet effective
Post by: VeryConfusedNon on January 22, 2013, 11:57:20 PM
I haven't seen her online since, why would she just pop up online for a few minutes one day?