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Yesterday s9 had swimming lessons. I got there, s9 was all ready there. I took him and got him changed in the boys change room. After swimming, I went to the change room and stood there with the door open for s9, he walked by me with a distressed look on his face. I didn't understand what s9 was doing so I went into the change room anyway to get his towel out and his clothes ready. I opened his locker and his clothes bag was gone. I looked everywhere. I went back out to the pool area and couldn't see s9. While lessons were going on, s9 mother got her bf to take s9 clothes bag and put it in a private family change room. I think it was a pretty low thing to do, I think her bf stepped way over his boundries. I walked into the family  room and there they were. I am definitely bringing this to the judges attention for my custody review in august. she is causing unnecessary trouble and am ping it up and making sure her bf is always there and he stands over s9 and I like I'm a child preditor like he has to watch me. The poor fella still doesn't see the red flags. Next week I am going to put a pad lock on s9 locker.

What is your feeling on asking him? Do you talk to him at all?

Hi Turkish, I thought about talking to him. I have no I'll feeling towards him. We were starting to be friendly  but I think she put a wrench in the  gears. Last week, leaving my father's,  her bf was driving by, he turned his head, couldn't look at me. I thought, he's kind of out  of his way but that's  all. Yesterday I was leaving my father's house and a car slowed right down, it was her bf looking in my father's driveway, he didn't see me, again I gave the benefit of the doubt. I left my father's and here was her bf coming back. He just turned around  and started for back, as he passed the end of the driveway he was giving me a big sarcastic wave. She has him brainwashed, she picked him for a reason. I feel my words will be wasted.