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My ex is scared of me I tryed to have him committed and had him arrested and got him counseling from that and consuling at work.   Almost a year later he will finally talk to my son. But it has be by phone because I will pretend to be him and he can not talk to me.   He thinks and has said in the past I fight he can not be around me because I fight. Actually they are him and are over little things.his sister I just found encourages him that I and the marriage stress him out and if not on his life he won't have a problem.  He has a girlfriend and somehow I know it will okay at first then it will become violent.   Is this all normal? He is not okay how do I get back and get him the help he needs?  I have be told from support groups his family is doing  no good and he away from them.  He thinks I have turned our son against him and we gang up on him . so maybe this progress.  Our ask to see him and no!   I would appreciate any feedback or if any of you have experienced any like this