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Title: Was This Devaluation? Post by: Willingtolearn on June 27, 2013, 04:04:46 PM I will always remember how the relationship ended with my exBPDgf. I said to her "You are as cautious about the relationship as i am" The next day she ended our relationship.
Was this a form of devaluation by her? Or was it something else that triggered her by me saying about the caution being taken in the relationship? Title: Re: Was This Devaluation? Post by: GreenMango on June 27, 2013, 04:22:07 PM Sounds like any apprehension on your part signalled to her you would leave.
It's all or nothing expectations or thinking. It's hard for a person with BPD to find middleground or resolve relationship conflict. How you doing? Title: Re: Was This Devaluation? Post by: Willingtolearn on June 27, 2013, 04:30:45 PM I am fine. I have been NC for 13 months, but still getting the hang up phone calls which i ignore.
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