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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: GettinStronger on February 24, 2013, 02:07:31 PM



Title: make the madness stop...
Post by: GettinStronger on February 24, 2013, 02:07:31 PM
oh my goodness - can they ever get enough of hearing themselves be philosophical? can they ever get enough of pushing and pushing someone to the brink of insanity?  can they ever see that they have FINALLY driven someone so far away that there is no possible way the relationship could ever continue (with or without therapy). 

I'm done with all of it and he is more of an annoyance these days than anything.  I have nothing to say to him.  I don't block him on my phone because then he drives 2 hours to show up and try and force a conversation.  That being said, I allow the texts to come unblocked, but don't respond-deleting as quickly as i can.

This has been a 6 yr relationship with the last 2 pure hell. Not really looking for answers just absolutely needing to vent.



Title: Re: make the madness stop...
Post by: LuckyEscapee on February 24, 2013, 02:21:24 PM
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oh my goodness - can they ever get enough of hearing themselves be philosophical? can they ever get enough of pushing and pushing someone to the brink of insanity?  can they ever see that they have FINALLY driven someone so far away that there is no possible way the relationship could ever continue (with or without therapy). 

The answer is no. It is always all about them. Sometimes it is unbelievable that they expect us to be at their whim after all they have put us through. 


Title: Re: make the madness stop...
Post by: Discarded26 on February 24, 2013, 02:41:43 PM
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oh my goodness - can they ever get enough of hearing themselves be philosophical? can they ever get enough of pushing and pushing someone to the brink of insanity?  can they ever see that they have FINALLY driven someone so far away that there is no possible way the relationship could ever continue (with or without therapy). 

The answer is no. It is always all about them. Sometimes it is unbelievable that they expect us to be at their whim after all they have put us through. 

Yep and still put us through, don't know whats worse, the silence or getting breadcrumbs. Either way it hurts  :'(