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Title: You know that crazy youtube video Post by: joshbjoshb on January 08, 2014, 12:05:25 PM Of the wife yells at her husband like a total freak? I just got one.
My main "sin" was that I didn't pick up the phone even though she called one time after another. I was at a meeting then (the presenter, mind you) but that shows that "you always disregard my opinion". She texted me (while I am at the meeting, but thank g-d it was a phone conference) that I must come at home and take care of my 1 years old because "she is leaving him downstairs". I didn't reply, then she stormed into my workplace (not a big place, only 3 other people), straight into my office, yelled at me that I must come and take care of him and she isn't taking care of our children until the end of the day, continue to yell in the parking lot. I came home, the screaming and cursing continued, I said I will not respond and indeed stopped responding. Right now she is in her bedroom, I am with both children (one came back from school). Besides my strong regret for not having a way to quickly record her rant, I also don't know if I was an enabler right now. Maybe I should have told her to leave my work place and no, I am not coming home. The thing is I am a little bit worried about whether or not she would have done something which is not safe. So far, she never did. But I have this fear in the back of my head. Anyways... . I also started going to a therapist for myself, he is specializing in BPD. Of course I already heart how worthless it is, and what of a selfish pig I am to leave when it's dinner time (it's the only time he's open in my area). Deep breath. Sigh. Try to smile. And work from home with 2 adorable children. |