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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: icuqueen on March 10, 2015, 02:14:46 AM



Title: struggling newbie
Post by: icuqueen on March 10, 2015, 02:14:46 AM
Help, my wife was just diagnosed with BPD a few wees ago. We just had our worst fight tonite. She tried swallowing some pills because she wanted an apology from me. I told her to id call the cops and she flipped out.She has yet to get an appt with her psych , she has a counselor but she cant prescribe meds. Her appt with psych is in 2 days. I dont know if i can take anymore.


Title: Re: struggling newbie
Post by: Rockylove on March 10, 2015, 07:27:12 AM
icuqueen, welcome!  I'm sorry things have been so difficult for you.  I don't know what's happening, but I can tell you that you've come to the right place to get words of wisdom and compassionate feedback. 

It's a blessing that your wife has been diagnosed and that she has a counselor and a psychiatrist that she'll be working with.  Keep in mind that although it's a relief to know that the craziness has now been defined~~given a name~~it's very difficult for one to accept that they are broken.  She's probably running through a gambit of emotions right now. 

I understand that your patience is running out, but take heart... .and read everything you can about BPD.  The lessons one this site have proven invaluable to me.  I hope that you'll find solace in knowing that you're not alone.  We're all here for the same reason.