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Title: Was I doomed from the start Post by: statsattack on January 21, 2017, 02:28:50 PM If she told me she was raped how in the world was she supposed to trust me after that?
Title: Re: Was I doomed from the start Post by: gotbushels on January 22, 2017, 05:25:38 AM Hi statsattack
Based on this sentence, I'd think if a woman told me she was raped, then that can be seen as an indication of trust. Doesn't a person share more information that would make us feel vulnerable with people we trust more? If you're spending a lot of time here, I'd like to help by saying that my understanding of the pwBPD in my life advanced a lot when I looked at the general patterns of behaviour rather than individual whys. Unlike my relationships with "normal" people, I found I couldn't typically apply "A leads to B" types of suppositions about behaviour to the pwBPD. |