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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: shatra on July 25, 2015, 08:21:38 PM



Title: Former "friend" is back in his life
Post by: shatra on July 25, 2015, 08:21:38 PM
Hi

    I recently found out a female "Friend" of my BP stayed over at his apartment. If they are just friends I would be okay with that, but she is interested in him romantically.  I talked to him and he insisted (as he has in the past) that they are just friends (even though she wants a romance with him). She had slept over "because she lives out of state and wasn't going to drive all the way back after the visit". 

    I  certainly have friends sleep over my apartment as just friends. I am upset and feeling angry because I know it is very common for BPDs to recycle with ex's.   This happened again this week (the sleepover) and I feel suspicious and hurt.  Not sure how to approach this (I'd love to find out the truth from him)

Shatra