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Title: First post Post by: flavadave037 on June 06, 2016, 03:11:18 PM Not sure how to begin. I have been married for 26 yrs to a woman diagnosed with BPD. Tough going to say the least. Just wanted to let everyone know I'm out there slugging it out in the trenches as you are. Stay strong
Title: Re: First post Post by: DotinOz on June 07, 2016, 08:50:20 AM I commend you for doing this crazy dance for that long... .Ive been married to a man with BPD for 7months and I am emotionally worn out most days.
Title: Re: First post Post by: Mutt on June 07, 2016, 10:32:35 AM Hi flavadave037,
*welcome* I would like to join DotinOz and welcome you. I can relate with feeling emotionally exausted from the push / pull behavior with a pwBPD. It can feel like crazy making behavior to the non disordered partner. 26 years is a long history, I wouldn't know where to begin either. It's therapeutic to write and to get it off of your chest. You will see that you will fit right in. Many of our members here can relate with your experiences and can offer you guidance and support. You're not alone. Do you have kids? Are you in marriage counseling or seeing a T? ( therapist ) How is your support network with your family and friends. What do you like to do for self care? I like to life weights. ~Mutt Title: Re: First post Post by: ColdEthyl on June 07, 2016, 01:20:12 PM Hello and welcome!
We are all familiar with how taxing it can be. I am so glad you found us! If there's anything specific you would like to talk about we are here :) |