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Title: "Emotional Booty Calls"
Post by: .cup.car on November 23, 2014, 11:44:53 PM
A few years ago during the final recycle attempt, I outlined the whole situation (up to that point) to a good friend of mine, and he described the recycling phase as an "emotional booty call."

Of course, we were both 19 and kinda laughed at how nonsensical that description is, but is that really the best way to look at a recycling phase?


Title: Re: "Emotional Booty Calls"
Post by: BuildingFromScratch on November 24, 2014, 01:39:05 AM
You posted this just because it's funny, and for no other reason! I approve. That is so true, and funny. :P


Title: Re: "Emotional Booty Calls"
Post by: Blimblam on November 24, 2014, 03:07:46 AM
Lol

Man. Sounds pretty accurate to me.

I often wonder if any of my exs exs are on here


Title: Re: "Emotional Booty Calls"
Post by: enlighten me on November 24, 2014, 03:10:39 AM
I like the description too.

I wonder how many of my exs exs are here.


Title: Re: "Emotional Booty Calls"
Post by: Infern0 on November 24, 2014, 03:16:41 AM
I always see posts on here that could be about my ex, the stories are all so similar.  It's almost a shame we can't name and shame.


Title: Re: "Emotional Booty Calls"
Post by: enlighten me on November 24, 2014, 03:53:48 AM
I always see posts on here that could be about my ex, the stories are all so similar.  It's almost a shame we can't name and shame.

It is. I wonder if were allowed to use locations. Often wondered how many other brits are here.


Title: Re: "Emotional Booty Calls"
Post by: ldeora on November 24, 2014, 04:02:50 AM
I always see posts on here that could be about my ex, the stories are all so similar.  It's almost a shame we can't name and shame.

It is. I wonder if were allowed to use locations. Often wondered how many other brits are here.

... .or Germans... .



Title: Re: "Emotional Booty Calls"
Post by: boatman on November 24, 2014, 05:45:14 AM
Excerpt
A few years ago during the final recycle attempt, I outlined the whole situation (up to that point) to a good friend of mine, and he described the recycling phase as an "emotional booty call."

Of course, we were both 19 and kinda laughed at how nonsensical that description is, but is that really the best way to look at a recycling phase?

Cup.car- I think it's a perfect description.  :) My ex had a whole pool of possible guys to draw from when she needed someone. She called them her "acquaintances".


Title: Re: "Emotional Booty Calls"
Post by: Earthbayne on November 24, 2014, 06:03:37 AM
Excerpt
A few years ago during the final recycle attempt, I outlined the whole situation (up to that point) to a good friend of mine, and he described the recycling phase as an "emotional booty call."

Of course, we were both 19 and kinda laughed at how nonsensical that description is, but is that really the best way to look at a recycling phase?

Cup.car- I think it's a perfect description.  :) My ex had a whole pool of possible guys to draw from when she needed someone. She called them her "acquaintances".

I think it is the perfect description too. Since our last outburst/breakup up until the REAL end, I noticed her increased activity in texting. She was prepping the orbiters for the eventual release. I'm sure the very next day after I walked out, she was hitting up at least 2 of them with some EBC's.


Title: Re: "Emotional Booty Calls"
Post by: guy4caligirl on November 24, 2014, 06:10:40 AM
Emotionally Booty ,I like that... .

From now on I think we should replace at the end of a post Best Regards to

I wish you an emotional Booty . ( That's if they're back to recycle ) That way you switch the dumper to the dumpy... .


Title: Re: "Emotional Booty Calls"
Post by: boatman on November 24, 2014, 06:17:15 AM
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I think it is the perfect description too. Since our last outburst/breakup up until the REAL end, I noticed her increased activity in texting. She was prepping the orbiters for the eventual release. I'm sure the very next day after I walked out, she was hitting up at least 2 of them with some EBC's.

Earthbayne-

I like the "orbiters" analogy. I've said before that a couple of my ex's acted like they were the sun with the planets (guys) orbiting around them. The key for them seems to be that they keep the planets in perfect orbits, not too close but not too far away.