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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: camuse on August 02, 2014, 03:08:43 PM



Title: Re: sexpectations, sexperiments and submissive (18+)
Post by: camuse on August 02, 2014, 03:08:43 PM
Mine became obsessed with BDSM, to the point where I refused to participate as it had become unhealthy. She was very unhappy with this and made me feel very guilty, saying it was unfair now to take it away from her. I don't know really what the significance of this was, but what started as a bit of mild fun seemed to turn into something quite dark, which I was not at all comfortable with - she wanted to be hurt, degraded, humiliated, and 'normal' sex became boring to her. I was unable to bring myself to do what she requested, and she made me feel very guilty about it.