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Title: BPDexGF contacts me, possible recycle Post by: Replacement99 on June 24, 2017, 04:02:40 AM 3.5 months after breakup she emailed me for some info and asking to meet up for a catchup. Says she is moving away after being offered a job. Timing of it is strange as I had posted pics of me looking happy with a new partner. :)ecided to go NC and feels liberating.
Title: Re: BPDexGF contacts me, possible recycle Post by: happendtome on June 24, 2017, 05:18:33 AM After 3,5 months since you and your ex broke up you are already in the relationship and posting happy pictures? Do you think you are healed?
Title: Re: BPDexGF contacts me, possible recycle Post by: Replacement99 on June 24, 2017, 01:39:03 PM After 3,5 months since you and your ex broke up you are already in the relationship and posting happy pictures? Do you think you are healed? Yes im fine with things now. Title: Re: BPDexGF contacts me, possible recycle Post by: JQ on June 26, 2017, 09:34:47 PM Replacement ... .
Question for you ... .if you're wanting to be done with your EXpwBPD ... .why is she still able to contact you via email/text/calling/etc ... . as far as her reaching out to you ... .she's trying to recycle you ... .trying to manipulate you into doing things you really shouldn't be doing ... . J Title: Re: BPDexGF contacts me, possible recycle Post by: Replacement99 on June 27, 2017, 07:38:02 AM Replacement ... . Question for you ... .if you're wanting to be done with your EXpwBPD ... .why is she still able to contact you via email/text/calling/etc ... . as far as her reaching out to you ... .she's trying to recycle you ... .trying to manipulate you into doing things you really shouldn't be doing ... . J Wanted to see if I got recycled or not. I guess now I know. Title: Re: BPDexGF contacts me, possible recycle Post by: once removed on June 27, 2017, 11:05:03 AM Wanted to see if I got recycled or not. a recycle occurs when two willing participants rekindle a relationship. shes moving away, so this seems out of the question. it sounds like she wants to reconnect on good terms before she does which is not uncommon in any relationship. it sounds like you dont have any interest in doing that, so carry on :) Title: Re: BPDexGF contacts me, possible recycle Post by: Replacement99 on June 27, 2017, 02:52:52 PM a recycle occurs when two willing participants rekindle a relationship. shes moving away, so this seems out of the question. it sounds like she wants to reconnect on good terms before she does which is not uncommon in any relationship. it sounds like you dont have any interest in doing that, so carry on :) Nah there is likely no job, it's a ploy to try and meet up. Pathetic as usual, NC will be maintained. |