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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Confused76 on November 21, 2014, 01:38:10 PM



Title: What are the chances?
Post by: Confused76 on November 21, 2014, 01:38:10 PM
I met my exUgf via Plenty of Fish.  We lived about an hour from each other, and she came from a town with a population of 150,00 (300,000 metro).  She was the first woman I ever met off of POF, I had always preferred OKCupid.  Now, it's been roughly 8 months since I've seen my ex, and around 6 since we've had any contact.

I've recently started dipping my toe back into the dating pool.  I met an interesting woman, who happened to be from the same town.  She inquired as to my past online dating experience.  I told her that I had met one other woman from POF, that happened to be from the same town, and that it hadn't been a healthy relationship.  I kept it vague for the most part.  Now, the other night, a story comes up that involves a very specific location of this city.  The new woman, asks why I had been over there.  After a little questioning, we find that she lives right across the street from the exUgf.  RIGHT ACROSS THE FU$%ING STREET!  I'm talking, she walks out her door, and she would be staring at my ex's front door.  What are the chances?

The good part, the last thing that I knew of my ex, she was moving to another state.  She has been out of that house for almost a year now.  I just had to stop and laugh at this odd coincidence. 

Nothing much more to add, just wanted to share with the community.