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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Alayne on May 21, 2017, 05:42:20 AM



Title: Introduction
Post by: Alayne on May 21, 2017, 05:42:20 AM
Starting to figure out what's been wrong has been a relief and long overdue. We've been married for three years. I'm writing specifically because we're in a "good" period and I know it has an inevitable end. I need some perspective to stay focused on studying, prep, and practice.

The unhappy part of this is that I suspect some of his behavior has narcissistic roots. We also have three children under 2. I'm having to objectively (ha) evaluate his impact on them.


Title: Re: Introduction
Post by: gotbushels on May 21, 2017, 09:03:47 AM
Hi Alayne 

Welcome.

I'm glad to hear that you've figuring out what's been going on in your life with your partner. Yes, the "good" periods often have unexpected ends with our partners.

You seem to be working on something. What are you looking at?

It's important to care for ourselves adequately when there are children involved.