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Title: update on my ever more complicated situation Post by: enlighten me on November 05, 2014, 01:38:32 AM I just wanted yo put an update on here as I think I need to see it all layed out and theres a lot of behaviours going on that people may relate to.
so where to start. My uBPDexgf has movrd out of my house. I have new tenants in but im constantly over there to sort out problems she has left behind. Firstly the bath taps are broken, a cupboard door in the kitchen was btoken off and the place was a complete mess. She also left a pile of rubbish in the house and garden that will take a whole truck to get rid of. The house also has a flea infestation from her cats. She also took some things of mine. CDs, a picture bought for my sons, wine glasses, pasta jars etc. She has not apologised for any of this and as she knows my tenants has told me one thing then the tenants something else. This was all to do with clearing the rubbish. She has a new supply but has kept it very secret. She is allowing me good access to my son but some of this is because she has other plans that the kids would get kn her way. thats about it for the exgf now the uBPDexw. I have been painted white she has made an escpe plan from her recent marriage and has been questioning her mum about me. She had an argument with her husband the other day and called her mum at 1:30 in the morning asking if she should call me. She has also been asking her mum if she might have a problem and she is also talking about therapy. There are signs of her becoming self aware. She has even apologised to her mum which is unheard of. All in all im holding my ground and recovering slowly but surely. I am able to predict events from them and be prepared. I wait with baited breath for the next drama fest to start. |