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Title: Feel like I broke NC Post by: VistaView on October 13, 2014, 12:44:28 AM Hello All
I have been strict NC from my BPDx since July but found out last night someone sent spam to every email address in my PC. I have sent emails to her when we were together so I am almost sure she got one too. I don't want her to think that I am looking for a lame excuse to contact her by sending a fake email ( I didn't send it ). It bothers me that my NC has possibly been compromised. So far I have not heard from her but I am feeling some anxiety that she may get the impression that I am starting to weaken from NC, this could not be further from the truth. Any advice? Title: Re: Feel like I broke NC Post by: Mutt on October 13, 2014, 01:37:53 AM Hello All I have been strict NC from my BPDx since July but found out last night someone sent spam to every email address in my PC. I have sent emails to her when we were together so I am almost sure she got one too. I don't want her to think that I am looking for a lame excuse to contact her by sending a fake email ( I didn't send it ). It bothers me that my NC has possibly been compromised. So far I have not heard from her but I am feeling some anxiety that she may get the impression that I am starting to weaken from NC, this could not be further from the truth. Any advice? Is your ex on your address book? You have a computer virus one that attaches itself to your address book and is sending through SMTP ( Send Mail Transfer Protocol ) to your contacts. Scan your computer with your anti-virus program. You didn't break NC, viruses are a part of technology. Be careful or whomever in your household when you download programs, click on pop-ups on websites or open ANY executable programs in your e-mails. I hope that helps. Title: Re: Feel like I broke NC Post by: VistaView on October 13, 2014, 02:08:01 AM Yes ... She is in my address book which is why I worry she was sent spam from my email acct. I just don't want her thinking I'm looking for a 're engagement of any type.
Title: Re: Feel like I broke NC Post by: Hurtbeyondrepair27 on October 13, 2014, 02:25:27 AM You mustnt give a ___e what your ex is
thinking anymore. if she tries to contact just ignore. ignore. ignore. Title: Re: Feel like I broke NC Post by: Mutt on October 13, 2014, 02:53:19 AM Yes ... She is in my address book which is why I worry she was sent spam from my email acct. I just don't want her thinking I'm looking for a 're engagement of any type. If she contacts you, simply say I may of had a virus that sent it. I hope you didn't open an attachment, but I'd recommend that you scan your computer just to be safe. Sorry. It's spamming because you have a virus. Check to make sure your system is clean. If you don't check, you're computer is going to keep sending messages. When a computer behaves abnormally ( sending spam ) that's because there's a program somewhere that's doing something it shouldn't - a virus. Title: Re: Feel like I broke NC Post by: VistaView on October 13, 2014, 05:57:10 AM Thank you for your replies ... I will virus scan my computer.
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