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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: turtlesoup on February 19, 2010, 05:20:42 PM



Title: Sorry to all those who has seen this... but
Post by: turtlesoup on February 19, 2010, 05:20:42 PM
If you haven't = this will give you some light relief.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=S2-9QSf7ruM&feature=related


Title: Re: Sorry to all those who has seen this... but
Post by: Desert on February 19, 2010, 05:29:17 PM
Yes, but... .I gave up after three minutes.

I realize it's a satire, but I kept thinking that this dude is just asking for it!  Why does he continue to engage her, and not just walk away?

Perhaps it's an allegory for the disengagement process... .sigh.


Title: Re: Sorry to all those who has seen this... but
Post by: 2010 on February 19, 2010, 07:45:01 PM
Splitting, Abuse, Projection, Blame, TRIANGULATION, Karma and Suicide Threats, yep.


Title: Re: Sorry to all those who has seen this... but
Post by: juner on February 19, 2010, 08:02:58 PM
I've seen this one a few times and always laugh when she says "karma." My ex friend used to gripe about people ... .nothing unusual about that ... .but whenever I had a gripe of my own she would always raise a finger, shush me and say ":)ON'T ... .that's bad karma." It was another handy way to control my every move.



Title: Re: Sorry to all those who has seen this... but
Post by: PotentiallyKevin on February 19, 2010, 08:07:15 PM
"You make me feel like nothing... .you think you are so superior... .stop being my therapist!"

Wow, I have heard these 1000000000000000000000 times from her. Usually when I was just defending myself.


Title: Re: Sorry to all those who has seen this... but
Post by: Untouched on February 19, 2010, 08:27:02 PM
Can't count how many times my uBPD exbf accused me of the same things.  The only difference is that he never had a therapist.


Title: Re: Sorry to all those who has seen this... but
Post by: rosebud on February 19, 2010, 08:29:23 PM
Wow, she actually paused and let him say something!


Title: Re: Sorry to all those who has seen this... but
Post by: harmony1 on February 20, 2010, 09:59:39 PM
creepy... has said similar... especially the part about death being inviting ?


Title: Re: Sorry to all those who has seen this... but
Post by: unknown on February 22, 2010, 08:02:31 AM
wow. so similar. espically the karma part... .and the whole i hate you thing.


Title: Re: Sorry to all those who has seen this... but
Post by: VB on February 22, 2010, 08:15:49 AM
Yup. That was like a tick list!


Title: Re: Sorry to all those who has seen this... but
Post by: healing1 on February 22, 2010, 08:21:39 AM
It is eerie how I can see so many similarities in my situation.   The validation is a nice feeling.

Maybe dialogue went on too long because if he tried to end the conversation by explaining he won't participate in discussion anymore and attempted to  go to another room in the house, she would follow him shouting "THIS IS MY HOUSE TOO YOU CAN'T KEEP ME OUT OF ANY ROOMS! I HAVE A RIGHT TO SAY WHAT I WANT YOU ARE TRYING TO CONTROL ME!"  Been there.