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Title: Still Here Still Confused as every (Stuck in the FOG) Post by: livejim56 on October 18, 2010, 03:46:19 AM Ok ya'll I have been posting here for quite a while. I have talked to my Therapist and she says I am to weak to go Nc without some force driving me. I have tried and tried believe me. Had my phone numbers changed 4 times. Been through 3 jobs. This B**ch seems to wanna drive me crazy. It is old and boring and has me wanting to run away from this world.
Mt "T' thinks that a TRo or R0 will help, but there will be some hell to pay. I plan on talking to my lawyer this week, I am so not happy and feel like I have no live., anytime and I mean anytime, I meet or talk to anyone male or female,. She seems to know and rakes me over the coals, and the lies she concocts man oh man, She has given me the engagement ring back 5 times, and yes you guessed it she wants it again. Mind you I can not go to her house, have never met any of her friends and she will not introduce me to her grown children. This is one "f**cked** up woman I am dealing with and if you all know anything about this type. She never stops, 30 to 50 voice mails or personal appearances are her Mo. Of course she works and is always to to tired or sick to really devout to our "relationship" I just feel like a piece of meat. anyway the question is do you guys and girls think a TRO or a RO will work with the whack job ? Title: Re: Still Here Still Confused as every (Stuck in the FOG) Post by: 2010 on October 18, 2010, 05:05:35 AM Excerpt the question is do you guys and girls think a TRO or a RO will work with the whack job ? I think you're putting the cart before the horse. Protective orders are for last resort- and put into place when all other methods have failed. A Protective order is for someone who is stalking you or threatening you, not someone whom you are "engaged" in an on and off again relationship with and you want to break-up. You've suggested that you've changed jobs 3 times, changed contact numbers 4 times and yet -you've gone back and given an engagement ring to her 5 times in spite of efforts you've made to get away. You cannot go to her house, you cannot meet any of her friends or introduce yourself to her grown children. Is there something that is keeping you from breaking it off and telling her it's over- without going through the hassle of getting a court order? Your avatar script says that you are "dating a BPD woman for 2 years"- could that be changed to past tense- "dated a BPD woman for 2 years?" ~You could start tomorrow and tell her it's over. I really think the power is in your hands. All you need to do is say, "no more." You don't need to get the courts involved unless it is absolutely necessary. |iiii |