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Title: Blocked Post by: FreeToBe on November 16, 2010, 11:11:34 AM Its been few months since my ex and I broke up... . I'm not certain shes BPD, but has strong traits. She hasnt tried to contact me in some time, but I had a strange feeling it was coming soon, so I blocked her everywhere but my house.
I'm hoping Im not provoking her by doing so... . I just dont want to go back. Did your blocking them cause trouble? Title: Re: Blocked Post by: Amdis on November 16, 2010, 11:15:59 AM I had her blocked because I was in a realationship with another woman that went no where. When that ended, I unblocked her. Within a few days, me and my BPDex started to talk. Go figure. I should never have unblocked her.
Title: Re: Blocked Post by: BillP on November 16, 2010, 11:38:49 AM I'm hoping Im not provoking her by doing so... . I just dont want to go back.
I have done the same with me ex. She has no way of contacting me. But is it possible that by blocking these ppl from all contact to us, it will provoke them? I mean, if they've moved on to another victim, would they even care about us? Just curious. I hope not. :) Stay strong, and believe in yourself. :) Title: Re: Blocked Post by: OverBoard on November 16, 2010, 01:26:35 PM I didn't block my ex. Kept lines of communication via cell open... after four months... she blocked me in every way? Go figure. I don't even care at this point. She was given open lines due to her condition and maybe... MAYBE... just needing to talk. She was daily... then she turned to hate with me in text. Then SHE blocked me. I don't pursue her... .why would I? That was not the reason for the open lines. Perhaps she is hoping I do? Sorry... .not going to happen.
Block them... I should have from day one of the break. I didn't listen and set "myself" up for a barrage of HATE text and emails, 30 voice msgs... .of rage and name calling then she blocks me... .walk away. Walk away. Title: Re: Blocked Post by: 2010 on November 16, 2010, 04:25:28 PM Excerpt Did your blocking them cause trouble? They were trouble before the blocking- you just thought you were able to manage it better by keeping the GPS tracker system up and activated. In reality, they were controlling you. Blocking is the only way to get out. You may have some reactions to the blocking- but the Hospital is waiting- and they have people there to take over for you in case of an emergency. Eventually a new rescuer will come into the scene and they will live happily ever after. (sorry... . that last part was sarcasm. It slips out sometimes but I'm working on it... .my bad.) Title: Re: Blocked Post by: nick212 on November 16, 2010, 04:32:29 PM It's weird they have like a seventh sense, I feel if I block her, it's going to just reinforce her behavior, so I stay silent,and under the radar.
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