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Title: Been NC for 3 weeks now Post by: yoshitx on November 27, 2010, 03:41:50 PM I have been No Contact for three weeks. Mostly it feels good.
For all who come after, I am the type that get their validation (https://bpdfamily.com/content/communication-skills-validation) from making other happy. So the lonely spots are really hard. Thanksgiving alone sucks. But better than 5 years ago when she tried to use the holiday to break apart my family ... .divide and isolate... . Today my daughter called and asked me to come over and help with a school project. I went and I did not go in the house. Simply helped with the project in the garage. But I could feel her. I was scared to death. She was in the house and knew I was there. Where is this fear coming from? Title: Re: Been NC for 3 weeks now Post by: 2010 on November 28, 2010, 05:48:44 AM Excerpt Where is this fear coming from? Childhood. |