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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: ve01603 on December 19, 2010, 09:14:31 PM



Title: Contempt
Post by: ve01603 on December 19, 2010, 09:14:31 PM
Contempt.  That is such a good word to describe how I think he felt about me. 

I think that he actually had contempt for me because he knew that I was a much better person that he was. 

I let him come back over here and stay a couple of weeks ago because he was so sick and by the time he got better, he was more hateful toward me than ever.  Probably because he knows that he would never let anyone who was sick stay with him and catch their cold.


Title: Re: Contempt
Post by: 2010 on December 19, 2010, 11:57:01 PM
Are you disengaging?


Title: Re: Contempt
Post by: ve01603 on December 20, 2010, 01:38:43 AM
Are you disengaging?

Yes.


Title: Re: Contempt
Post by: Travis on December 20, 2010, 02:29:31 AM

Good for you. 


Title: Re: Contempt
Post by: kj1234 on December 20, 2010, 02:19:28 PM
Maybe it is contempt for himself projected onto you.


Title: Re: Contempt
Post by: ve01603 on December 20, 2010, 06:16:40 PM
Maybe it is contempt for himself projected onto you.

I think you are right.


Title: Re: Contempt
Post by: RedDevil66 on December 20, 2010, 08:19:00 PM
Besides my ex accusing me of being hateful, evil and bi polar, he told me once that I was full of contempt for him. Which I was because of all his abuse, but it took me years to see, he really felt deep hatred and contempt for me because I was something and he was a nothing.

No friends, I have tons

I make things happen, he's a lazy jerk

He just simply hates!