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Title: I had a fling :) Post by: sea5045 on May 18, 2011, 07:54:56 PM And it feels ok, not too weird, I was just taken by surprise that it even happened since I have been so shut down and not having sex for two years. I liked it, some awkardness after, but so nice to be thinking about someone else rather than my ex. Sp anyway, I guess my mojo is kind of back. Unfortunately I can't one night stand and am more a relationship person and I don't think this is possible. But she was awfully pretty, and fun :) So I surprised myself maybe we can all get surprised?
Title: Re: I had a fling :) Post by: Noob on May 18, 2011, 08:00:32 PM Yay for you!
I'm kinda seeing someone, myself... . ;p The awkwardness is unsettling, but I think very, very normal... .It's what happens between two authentic people when they are exploring intimacy without really knowing each other... . Very different from the "soulmate" connection I had right off the bat with exBPD... . I'm glad you had a nice surprise, Sea :) |iiii Title: Re: I had a fling :) Post by: 2010 on May 18, 2011, 08:47:29 PM This coping mechanism might be better received on the L6 board.
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